Thank you Moses for the detailed explanation and advice. I was using the terminology of "end play" in stead of bearing stickout to create preload, that was one of my mistakes... I did however clean out the axle tube end a little more and also found one of the original axle shims from the AMC 20 axle was a .030 shim.. so I was able to use that shim on the Passenger Side to get the proper bearing load. The Driver's Side didn't actually need a shim, it ended up being .040 bearing stickout. I was able to install the axles on Wednesday night.
To answer one of your questions about Ten's expecting their customers to machine/lathe the spacer lip, my answer is "yes".. that is what they instructed me to do. I was not comfortable doing that because I thought it would take away from the integrity of the spacer lip strength for holding the bearing in place for not only pre-load, but also when cornering at road speed. I am glad that the original shim I pulled off the axle from the two piece axle setup just happened to be what I needed! Phew!! No need to stack shims.
Ultimately, I was able to get both the left and right sides axles at .040 bearing stickout and the preload seems to be fine.
I greatly appreciate the advice and help you offered! It's incredible being part of this group and these forums! Keep doing what your doing.. we all appreciate it!